“Happy Valentines Day to those who have found love, in whatever shape or form, and to those who are still hunting, don’t give up. If you feel bad, send yourself a card. You must be worth it.” — Jeanette Winterson

Cultivate Love in All Forms

Jeanette Winterson’s quote reminds us that love exists in many forms—romantic, platonic, self-love, and even the simple joy of connection with the world around us. Valentine’s Day isn’t just about having a partner; it’s about celebrating love in any way that enriches your life. Whether you have someone special or not, you can still embrace the spirit of love by appreciating the relationships, passions, and experiences that bring you happiness. Love isn’t limited to one definition—it’s found in friendships, in family, in self-care, and in the small acts of kindness we show ourselves and others.

To apply this, start by shifting your perspective on love. If you're single, instead of feeling left out, use this time to celebrate self-love. Treat yourself with the same kindness you’d give a partner—write yourself a note of encouragement, plan a day doing things you enjoy, or simply acknowledge your own worth. If you have love in your life, express gratitude for it. Send a message to a friend, compliment a stranger, or remind your loved ones how much they mean to you. Love grows when we actively nurture it, and it often returns in unexpected ways.

Lastly, remember that love is a journey, not a destination. If you’re still searching, don’t lose hope. The right relationships—romantic or otherwise—often come when you are fully embracing your own worth. In the meantime, invest in yourself, chase your passions, and build a life that you love. Whether it’s through self-care, personal growth, or meaningful connections, make love something you create daily, not just something you wait to receive.